What a great forum topic, RC! Thanks for posting it!
I don't have a lot of time to write a long response now, and I'm actually very curious to know what others thing, but I can say that I, myself, identify with the idea of 'anarchistic kink,' thoough I don't think I'd have chosen that phrase to describe it. I'd have chosen something that suggested "flexibility" more than "no rules."
Part of what is so intriguing to me about BDSM play is, in fact, the codification of roles and rules. But I very much like to push the boundaries of rules and to change roles with some frequency.
I've got to get back to some work, but I'll definitely check in on this thread later. I'd love to read what others have to say!
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Elizabeth