Polyamory is a poor choice for an ideal, since it barely works for its tiny number of adherents. Monogamy, for all its problems, has a long track record, with huge segments of the world successfully following it. Polyamory is like any other alternative lifestyle, it works for a minority of people and should be encouraged, but it hardly qualifies as "the answer."
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Tom Paine
author of "Polyamorously Perverse"
http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com/