JanieBelle, I understand your frustration and did not mean to make you feel unprofessional. It's my job to try to make sure the "structural parts" of the site reflect the tone I want the site to set. It sounds like your challenge is finding a balance between venting frustration and expressing yourself in a tone you call "professional."
My challenge is finding a balance between my tendency toward neutral language of cultural relativism and my need to express my very real sense that some things are just right and other things are just wrong. It'll be interesting to watch the two of us as the site develops!
...because public space really matters!
Elizabeth