I actually really like to see condoms for vaginal or anal intercourse. (I'm neutral on their presence/absence for oral sex.) My entire experience of heterosexual intercourse for the first 10 years that I was sexually active -- with very few exceptions -- was with condoms. I loved them. When I met my current partner and we decided that we did not need to use condoms at first I was actually grossed out by the ooziness after sex. It also felt like something was missing in the lead up to intercourse. I was surprised by how much I had actually eroticized condom use and how much I'd come to see them as symbol of care and responsibility and preparation -- all of which I find sexy! I would love to see more condoms in porn. It would make the sex feel more "real" to me. A minority opinion I'm sure, but mine all the same.

...because public space really matters!

Elizabeth