I'm actually only replying to a small part of the conversation, so I'll keep it short.  I love the idea of a porn club.  Maybe it's just because I'm interested in studying human sexuality and sexual culture, but it seems like you could learn a lot (both academically and personally) from these kinds of discussions.  

It also makes me wonder if one reason porn is so notoriously bad is because nobody ever talks about it.  If people were introduced to different ranges of porn perhaps they would know what to look/ask for rather than just accepting that all porn is bad and settling for what's easy to find.  Passing up bad porn and searching out quality stuff = more demand for good porn = more supply.

Ok, done.  I'm going to go look for a porn club now.