Just heard from Caroline that the next Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy is likely to be hosted at Audacia Ray's Waking Vixen. I apologize for the mistake!
Also, a blog I meant to include - it's one of my favorites and I forgot it because I've been so behind on my blog reading lately:
Sinclair's Sugarbutch Chronicles - it's an amazing exploration of gender, sexuality from the perspective of a 'kinky queer butch top,' who combines intellectual exploration, personal revelation and sexual narrative in a really compelling way.
...because public space really matters!
Elizabeth