http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/taxonomy/term/643 Comments for "public sex" en http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/node/361#comment-591 <p>Or at least feeling your pain in the first paragraph.  What&#39;s a non-ogled exhibitionist to do?  Very very tragic.</p><p>The only solution I&#39;ve personally been able to come up with thus far involves a trip to the police station, which my wife has decided is grounds for divorce.  She has no sense of humor.</p><p>Seriously, I&#39;m really not good with the government at any level deciding what&#39;s going on in my head or whether it&#39;s good for me or society.  I&#39;m with you on shaming the shameful loudly and publicly.  It&#39;s unacceptable behavior that needs to be ended, but it shouldn&#39;t be illegal.</p><p>&quot;Counselor, what&#39;s the charge?&quot;</p><p>&quot;He looked at her 2 seconds longer than allowed by law.&quot;</p><p>Not a place I want us to go. </p> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 15:35:13 -0700 Lou FCD comment 591 at http://sexinthepublicsquare.org http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/node/361#comment-588 <p>I&#39;ll preface this with the assertion that it’s extremely rare for me to be publicly ogled. I think it’s due to women ogling men less than men ogling women. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, just not to me. It also doesn’t help that at any given place there are way more attractive men around than me. Being the exhibitionist I am, this is very tragic. When I do get ogled, it’s usually by another man. Being hungry for the attention, I eat it up. </p><p> But I digress. I don’t know what it’s like to be harassed. I don’t know what it’s like to feel powerless to street harassment or &quot;unconsensual voyeurism.&quot; But what bothers me is the government involvement. Government telling me what’s acceptable. I want to make the decision. I want the woman to be empowered enough to say, “hey, what the F are you doing”. Embarrass the person and not feel embarrassed. I want the passer bys to say something. We all turn a blind eye. “Thank got he’s not bothering me” or “Please don’t look over here.” When we let government step in and take care of us, then we have to play by their rules. The government becomes our parents and they have the keys to the car on a Friday night. </p> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 14:47:57 -0700 Paul comment 588 at http://sexinthepublicsquare.org