"Nobody wants some sicko drilling a peephole in their locker room wall or private hotel room. But this ordinance feels like something akin to outlawing wolf whistles from a construction site and, then, banning the corresponding hand signal from the street."
It seems to me the Times is missing the point. Street harassment is a real issue and it continues to be one of the things that restricts women's sense of freedom. I don't thik that Vallone's law is the answer, but I hate to see the issue trivialized as it is in this editorial.
If fining oglers $500 or locking them up for 90 days seems like the wrong answer to you, but you're concerned about street harassment or "unconsensual voyeurism," leave your suggestions for alternatives to Vallone's law in the comments below. Maybe we'll even take a poll about the best alternatives and send it along to the City Council!
Then, this morning, the Times editorial page weighs in on the hoopla over the Larry Craig arrest/scandal. They astutely point out that when David Vitter was caught patronizing prostitutes he was not asked to resign, nor was there an ethics investigation of his behavior, but Craig's behavior has elicited both of those responses from his Repbulican colleagues. It seems that it takes a same-sex connection to make a sex scandal an ethics issue. Cheating on your wife and patronizing sex workers isn't quite enough. This may not be just about heterosexism, though. The Times does point out that there might be a purely political reason for this:
"Certainly, no Republican called for the resignation of Mr. Vitter, who comes from Louisiana, which has a Democratic governor who would then replace him. Mr. Craig is from a safe state with a Republican governor."
The Times also questions why sex scandals have received more critical attention from congress than, say, financial scandals that are much more expensive and really much more troubling to the function of the government. Specifically they site Senator Ted Stevens, who has been investigated by the FBI for "quid pro quo" dealings with a government contractor.
You know, there is a big part of me that hates the feeding frenzy over the Craig matter. It's important to point out the hypocricy of folks like Craig. But do we also further stigmatize homosexuality and same-sex sex by painting these scandals as, well, so scandalous?
It's important to remember that it's the shame around the sex, and the hypocricy that often supports it, that is scandalous, not the sex itself.
...because public space really matters!
Elizabeth
I'll preface this with the assertion that it’s extremely rare for me to be publicly ogled. I think it’s due to women ogling men less than men ogling women. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, just not to me. It also doesn’t help that at any given place there are way more attractive men around than me. Being the exhibitionist I am, this is very tragic. When I do get ogled, it’s usually by another man. Being hungry for the attention, I eat it up.
But I digress. I don’t know what it’s like to be harassed. I don’t know what it’s like to feel powerless to street harassment or "unconsensual voyeurism." But what bothers me is the government involvement. Government telling me what’s acceptable. I want to make the decision. I want the woman to be empowered enough to say, “hey, what the F are you doing”. Embarrass the person and not feel embarrassed. I want the passer bys to say something. We all turn a blind eye. “Thank got he’s not bothering me” or “Please don’t look over here.” When we let government step in and take care of us, then we have to play by their rules. The government becomes our parents and they have the keys to the car on a Friday night.
Or at least feeling your pain in the first paragraph. What's a non-ogled exhibitionist to do? Very very tragic.
The only solution I've personally been able to come up with thus far involves a trip to the police station, which my wife has decided is grounds for divorce. She has no sense of humor.
Seriously, I'm really not good with the government at any level deciding what's going on in my head or whether it's good for me or society. I'm with you on shaming the shameful loudly and publicly. It's unacceptable behavior that needs to be ended, but it shouldn't be illegal.
"Counselor, what's the charge?"
"He looked at her 2 seconds longer than allowed by law."
Not a place I want us to go.
Feel free to read whatever's left of my own thoughts at Crowded Head, Cozy Bed
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