The awful logic of "she was asking for it"

You are sitting in a car with your exboyfriend. You want some pictures back. You are planning to marry someone else. Suddenly your car is attacked, you and your ex are both kidnapped, and both raped.

When your case goes before a judge you are punished, along with your attackers. You are sentenced to 90 lashes for being out alone with a man who is not a member of your family. Your attackers are sentenced to prison terms ranging from 10 months to 5 years and to 800 to 1,000 lashes.

You appeal.

On appeal their sentences are increased but so is yours. Now you are sentenced to 200 lashes and 6 months in jail.

Now, it seems, you are being punished for appealing in addition to being punished for talking to your exboyfriend.

This is the case of a woman in Saudi Arabia, one of our "allies" and the only good thing to report is that it has, according to the New York Times, "provoked a rare public debate about the treatment of women" in that country.

Even lawyers have spoken out, some on television, objecting to the sentence and pointing to other cases where women were not treated so harshly.

A disturbing observation from the very end of the Times article: "The victim is now married, and her husband told local reporters that he planned to appeal the verdict." I'm glad he's supportive of his wife, of course. But why is he the one appealing?

Read the story here.

 

 


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Thank You Elizabeth

I read about this over at Skepchick and wanted to post about it, but I'm so insanely pissed off that I just can't discuss the subject without blowing a blood vessel.

 

 


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JanieBelle

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not just about 'dem foreigners...

Thanks for posting this - I think I originally caught wind of it via NYT online, and it's an important news story to take note of...

As shocking and appalling as this is, let's just remember that far from being an isolated incident, or something that is a cultural issue (even though, yes, there are definitely religious, regional, cultural, and ancient moral systems at play here), that there is a connection to attitudes in our own culture that reinforce the belief that women are responsible for what men do when we get aroused (or even act violent).

I get afraid that many men would read about this case and say "that's appalling" (and they'd be right) without necessarily drawing the connection between the religiously-rooted, archiac condemnation of Saudi women and their own support of American attitudes that reinforce the concept that women "deserve" to have certain things done to them or "asked for it" by virtue of having worn something/said something/drank something/or walked somewhere, etc.

A good article to post, and definitely fodder for a larger conversation about consent, victim-blaming, and cross-cultural attitudes about sex, gender, and sexuality. 

Saudi rape victim pardoned?

The AP is reporting that King Abdullah has pardoned this poor woman even though, in his words, it was clear that the sentence was fair.

One wonders how he can possibly believe that. Is this a combination of face-saving for the court and attempt at getting justice for the woman?

In any case, I'm pretty sure she'd have been jailed and lashed were it not for the international outcry and sustained attention brought to the case, which supported the efforts of those who were protesting the sentence inside Saudi Arabia to continue their own lobbying for a reversal.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071217/ap_on_re_mi_ea/saudi_justice 


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