Working Girls Speak: Shame On You, Diane Sawyer

Tonight, ABC's 20/20 hit the streets looking for hookers & intending to cash in on the salacious sides of sex work ~ with Diane Sawyer as lead pimp, making her paycheck just another one of the profits earned from the poor, down-trodden, girls she herself called exploited.

Diane let us know from the start, with her Good Friday biblical references, that this was not actual news coverage nor anything remotely close to impartial reporting; and from that moment on both Secondhand Rose and myself, Gracie Passette, began typing furiously to one another ~ and no, 'furiously' wasn't our typing speed.

Here are our notes.

The two hour 20/20 was titled Prostitution in America: Working Girls Speak; apparently no one thought this ironic as Diane often interrupted her interviewees to put words in their mouths.

On several occasions Diane stated no numbers of sex workers were known ~ but she didn't let that stop her from spouting a standard "60-90%" for everything from pimps to abuses, substantiated with a "we're told".

By whom?

I guess there's no harm in percentages; 60-90% of 10 or 60-90% of 2 million is completely irrelevant, right? Unless you are going for some sort of reporting integrity.

Let's face it, Diane, the bigger the number, be it fictitious, unsubstantiated or in ambiguous percentages, is all you were after. Those are big alarmin' numbers, huh, America!

But most upsetting, unprofessional and therefore unethical was that this 'look at sex work' focused mainly on street sex workers.

It's not just that the selection process of location was the main focus (with few other side trips to other physical locations and levels in the broad industry of sex work) despite her continual mention of how easy it was to shop for sex online. (You mean to tell us that in two years of research, Diane, you couldn't find any other sex workers to interview?! We're right here!)

The focus on the poorest of our sisters was not just infuriating ~ but the analysis or lack there of was insulting.

Diane compared apples to oranges mixing issues of poverty, drug addiction, abuse and hopelessness with the work & even the workers themselves, reducing work and worker to bad & unoriginal stereotypes.

With all due sympathy & concern to both the sex workers interviewed and others in similar circumstances (and we mean that sincerely), the issues depicted, discussed, and disparaged here are not matters of all sex work.

People who live off the streets; who barely manage to survive; who are victims of drugs, poverty and abuse; and, most importantly, who do not feel they have the ability &/or resources to better their lives are groups of people dealing with those issues. If they also are sex workers, then they deal with those issues while a sex worker; just as a formerly abused, heroine addicted banker is dealing with abuse issues and a drug addiction while a banker.

Would anyone say that addicts, no matter their profession, are the best decision makers?

Who would sit still and allow any reporter to show such film footage & interviews with drug addicted bankers/blacks/Italians and use statements such as "there are no numbers, but we are told..." and then sum it all up with this is how bankers/blacks/Italians or any other group of people are?

Would one even ask workers in any other profession about instances of sex abuse?

Are the hopeless & depressed, frightened & oppressed, to be the speakers for the entire group?

It would be easy to go into any poor community, round up the lowest paid workers at a fast food chain and get them to bemoan their work situation ~ even cry as they admitted their hopelessness and the trials and tribulations which brought them to this place, this work. (Especially if they were given coffee or other perks for their time; and it was clear in many cases that just shelter from the wind and the cold was a rare respite for these poor women.)

But here Diane goes, lumping all these issues under the 'sex work' umbrella as if her personally selected anecdotal interviews now spoke for all of those literally countless sex workers.

We'll admit that sex work has its dangers; but the violence depicted here seems more in line with neighborhoods than the work itself.

Wouldn't it be more logical to equate the dangers and violence of certain neighborhoods to those desperate and violent neighborhoods rather than to the profession of sex work? I'd love to know how many of those living there & aren't sex workers had also been robbed and stabbed. I'd love to know what the percentages of taxi drivers, bread makers, and social workers who lived and worked in those neighborhoods had been robbed and stabbed. My guess is those numbers are much, much higher; even when accounting for higher incident reports because those not involved in sex work need not fear repercussions. And if they are lower, let's look at the number of hours spent in those areas, and again for the number of hours spent there after dark.

The facts of life on the streets aren't scary, attention grabbing enough; Diane had to put sex and, even dirtier, sex work in the middle of it.

And hey, stomping on a kitten isn't sex work; it's animal abuse. Anyone willing to do such a thing for money is desperate or deranged. Period. It doesn't matter what career choices they have made.

But no, Diane lumps kitten killing in under the umbrella of 'sex work' rather than (any or all of) the umbrellas of 'drug addiction', 'desperation', 'mental illness', 'utter cruelty' ~ or even 'utter stupidity'.

If we find one bastard, in any profession, who stomped on a kitten (or a puppy) for pay, are we allowed to hold that bastard up as a representative ~ in any fashion ~ of that profession?

Had this shoddy reporting been used to 'examine' any other sector of the work force or group of people, there would be hell to pay.

The only moments approaching the experiences of the two of us were those with the unidentified courtesan. And not just because that's the only way the two of us would (when escorting or now) appear in such a broadcast; this woman was sane, rational.

While Diane literally said that she "couldn't accept" the courtesan's unwillingness to say she didn't feel she was losing anything special about sex or in any way say that her work made her feel dirty confused, we both knew what the courtesan was saying. Not only does this serve to illustrate more of Diane's inability to be objective, but a complete unwillingness to be open to considering a view point other than her own.

Even when the courtesan told Diane that she had intimacy issues (which, by the way, dear courtesan, does not qualify as a 'mental problem' as far as we can tell; millions of high-functioning people in other professions feel the same way), we both applauded this woman's self-awareness. Like the clients who pay for an intimate relationship with limits, bravo to the young courtesan who realizes who, what and where she is in her life and does not screw up other people. Both she and her clients could lie to themselves and others, but they don't. They arrange relationships with willing persons.

As for why the courtesan feels she isn't ready for such intimacy, she stated that while she was not abused (nor, we'd like to state, a drug addict) she'd been hurt. Find us a person who doesn't, because they've been hurt, take quite a bit of time to heal and learn to trust again. (Better yet, find us a person who hasn't been hurt ~ in any profession.)

Diane topped this segment off with a stern, "We could not corroborate her statements." Could you, did you, corroborate any of the statements of the drug addicts? Of the abuse victims? Of any of the sex workers?

Yet you opted to undermine the statements of the one woman who was very positive and articulate about her sex work.

Go figure.

Then there were the few moments of 'where are they now' follow-ups with the workers they interviewed. The ominous 'could not be found' was used to incite fear; but perhaps each went on to get a job at Wal-Mart or McDonald's. Then again, and we don't mean to sound crass or uncaring, perhaps the drug users died of overdoses; that happens as a matter of fact, and is not due to sex work. Why isn't the women who was hit by her husband and 'disappeared' likely a victim of domestic violence rather than sex work?

Because that wouldn't be as salacious, as disparaging to the sex work profession, would it.

Diane wrapped-up the program with another mention of the Christian holiday and a quote from the bible; the one about being the first to cast a stone.

I guess the irony of a sinning journalist stoning another profession was lost on ABC.

But not us.

The stigma of sex, especially as it is in this country, clouds the thinking of most people; we just didn't expect the clouds to render Diane Sawyer free of her journalistic integrity; indeed, of any rational thought.

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Bound Not Gagged asks for Sex Worker Commentary on 20/20 site

Gracie and Rose, thank you so much for the analysis of ABC's 20/20 feature.

How dare they situate the episode as if this were really about the range of prostitution in the US, or about the wide range of sex worker voices that need to be heard.

Related: The sex worker advocates at Bound, Not Gagged, are calling for action. Click here for the post. Specifically, they're calling on sex workers who saw the show to post comments on the ABC News page for the 20/20 episode and also on the BNG thread. They're overall message: You be the reporter since the mainstream media reporters aren't doing such a great job.


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As soon as this was

As soon as this was published (we each published this at our own blogs & I also posted at BlogHer) I send an email to ABC.  I will, of course, check out BNG too.  (Your links do not work, but I know my way there *wink*)


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Links are fixed

Thanks for letting me know they weren't working. I've been having trouble that way with one of my browsers and had forgotten about the issue. They're fixed now. (Of course you already knew where to go, but for others it matters!)

 


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Elizabeth

I didn't see the broadcast, but...

While I do have respect for Diane Sawyer (think how many times she must put up with ignorant, uninformed, and outright sexist comments & questions about women in media), and I DID NOT see the broadcast, it seems the basic premise of Gracie & Rose's blog is true: "The stigma of sex, especially as it is in this country, clouds the thinking of most people; we just didn't expect the clouds to render Diane Sawyer free of her journalistic integrity; indeed, of any rational thought."  As a sometime journalist myself, I do respect the profession.  I readily admit that often, due to deadlines, we go with our first inclination on a story.  Most people, I would fairly well assume, when asked "what is prostitution like?" would offer up the cliches of "abused, drug addicted, exploited...."  And the men (and women- hey it COULD happen) who frequent these providers remain disregarded, as if the customer doesn't have any place in the story.  How many of the customers are poor, drug addicted, abused themselves?  How many are NOT?  As a journalist I always ask myself the hard questions, try to think of the exceptions, not just the rule.  So it very well might be that most prostitutes ARE drug addicts, poor, abused, they are NOT the end of the story.  And, even if these women are fairly representative of the profession, so what?  The argument against legalizing their work is almost always along the lines of "oh those poor exploited women, we're protecting them"- from what? As if keeping their work illegal DOESN'T keep them exploited, abused, unhealthy? 

Now in a response to a Elizabeth's response to my response to Lisa's blog, I said that the one time I actually paid for physical sex was NOT pleasant and that I would hesitate to do it again, this, in no way, means I think the work should remain illegal.  I think it should be completely legal, taxed, regulated, and, in some cases, for some people, promoted!  I can see where, when, & why a professional sex worker, especially one unhinged from the illegality of the work, could be a positive endeavor for a person willing to pay for the service.  

I think Diane Sawyer missed a GREAT opportunity to look at women (and men) who ENJOY their work, do not fit the stereotypes, and then to use her analytical skills to ask about legalizing.  And, yes, she still could have reported on the poor, abused, drug addicted.  It's called "balance" and "objectivity" and digging for a unique angle on a oft-reported-on story.  Hell, think of all the money, human lives, and political bullshit that could have been saved if more American journalists asked the hard questions, looked at alternative sources, in the run up to Bush's OBVIOUSLY flawed decision to invade Iraq.  Shitty journalism equals shitty politics, period.

20/20

   Unfortunately, I did not see 20/20. I don't think that there will ever come the time that Diane Sawyer, Barbara Walters, Katie Couric, etc. would ever find any positive things to say about being a sex worker whether it is legal or not. It is an unfortunate fact that  our society  cannot look at the reasons it would be beneficial to legalize prostitution. We are still stuck in old world thought processes and I wonder if we will ever come out.

   I look at this scandal with Eliot Spitzer. He really was crucified because of the hypocrisy of it all. He went after people and bullied them while behaving like the moral authority. Isn't it a silly thing that he was forced to resign because he paid for sex. Is it really anyone's business other than his wife? Our new governor had affairs. Is that more acceptable because when he committed adultery, he didn't pay for the actual sex act? That is what Diane Sawyer should have been looking at.

  As far as unbiased reporting, you won't see it when it comes to these issues. She wants to be seen as a role model and a champion for women's causes. In reality, if a woman chooses to be a sex worker, than isn't that her choice, and shouldn't we be empowering her and doing everything possible to make sure she is safe in her choice?

I thank you all for your

I thank you all for your comments, here and elsewhere.  I just wrote a follow-up piece on the program which includes more from other sex workers (including Jessi from the show) and clients based on the forums at MyRedBook.  Also, there are other sites which have linked to the articles (as they were cross posted); I've compiled a list of links here.

More to come... *wink* 


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