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Conflict and responsibility

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  • faculty-student relationships
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  • Lisa Chavez
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Submitted by Michael on 9 April 2008 - 7:01pm.

The debate on extra-curricular activities by University of New Mexico staff and postgraduate students continues in the Blogosphere. Of particular interest are those from within UNM, and those associated with Professor Chavez’ writing and teaching (English and Women’s Studies ), such as Samantha Anne Scott.

Yet there is little evidence of any public statements on managing the conflict within the English Department, a conflict that reports suggest threatens the careers of faculty, the integrity of teaching, and is inappropriately dragging students into the debate.

Constructive debate on issues in the academy is productive, unmanaged conflict is not. What then are the issues at stake, that must be of concern to all academics, authorities and students? These can be dissected on a number of levels from the micro-environment, the conduct of individuals to the macro level, the responsibility of the organisation.

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Another important voice

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  • faculty-student relationships
  • higher education
  • Lisa Chavez
  • Liz Derrington
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Submitted by Elizabeth on 6 April 2008 - 7:25am.

This is the third piece on Sex In The Public Square dealing with the University of New Mexico conflict over the investigation into Professor Lisa Chavez's work for a BDSM fantasy phone service. In the first piece I wrote about questions I thought the case raised based on very early media coverage of the story. In the second post, yesterday, Lisa Chavez herself took the time to answer questions about the story. It is important for her voice to be heard. The comments on that thread show what a serious discussion of the issues can look like.

Today we add another voice. Liz Derrington wrote to me yesterday sharing her part in the story. She is the graduate student referred to in yesterday's piece, and listening to her voice is as important as listening to Professor Chavez's. For one thing, their stories so clearly support one other that it seems all the more evidence that the initial university investigation produced the right outcome (though as Michael Goodyear points out here we can't know if they did so by following due process because as far as we know there have been no reports about the investigation released to the public). Liz Derrington's story is important for its own sake, too, of course. For one thing, it provides a window into a part of the sex industry that we often forget to look at. I am especially touched, though by the way that she clearly and openly explains just how damaging have been the actions of people who claimed to be concerned for her. It is a reminder of how harmful is the paternalism with which we often approach the issue of sex work, especially when combined with the stigma already attached to that work. I'm grateful to Liz for telling her story here:

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Lisa Chavez speaks out

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  • faculty-student relationships
  • higher education
  • Lisa Chavez
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  • sex work
Submitted by Elizabeth on 4 April 2008 - 3:35pm.

Lisa Chavez is a tenured Associate professor in English at University of New Mexico, where she teaches creative writing--mostly poetry and nonfiction. She has two books of poetry published: Destruction Bay and In An Angry Season. She writes about issues of race, gender, class and sexuality.

On March 24 I wrote about the conflict that had erupted at UNM after some BDSM photos got Chavez into trouble with some of her colleagues. Yesterday I learned from the dankprofessor, who himself learned it from The Daily Lobo, UNM's student newspaper, that the head of the creative writing program is resigning over the matter. Sharon Warner submitted her resignation letter and is expected to step down at the end of next week. Her reason for resigning, according to the student newspaper report is that "her colleague has not been punished for posing in sexually explicit photos with students.” Those photos were advertisements for People Exchanging Power (PEP), a BDSM phone fantasy service and did not represent a sexual relationship. The students were graduate students already working for PEP. The Deputy Provost found no reason to sanction her.

Lisa Chavez has graciously agreed to talk to us about her work for PEP, the situation at UNM, about relationships between faculty and students, about misconceptions of BDSM and the difficulty some people have distinguishing between fantasy and reality, and about and the impact this is having on her life and the lives of some of the other gay, lesbian and bisexual faculty in the department. I am grateful that she agreed to talk with me about her story:

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Good News: That Bear Stearns Stock Isn't *Totally* Worthless

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  • news
  • politics
  • sex work
Submitted by Chris on 1 April 2008 - 2:55pm.

I think I have a crush on Miss Victoria X. It's true that I don't patronize pro-dommes, partly because of a budget that, in a particularly profitable month, might allow me to purchase the privilege of a scornfully lifted eyebrow from one as she passes me in midtown Manhattan on the way to beat the hell out of some corporate lackey at the Plaza. However, were I in the market, I think that Miss Victoria X would be on my list.

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When is it okay for faculty and students to be sexual in the same place?

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  • higher education
  • Lisa Chavez
  • sex
  • sexuality
Submitted by Elizabeth on 24 March 2008 - 6:59pm.

If you ask it that way it's kind of an odd question, isn't it? I mean we're basically sexual all the time. We just aren't always acting on our sexual desires. But we are not without our sexuality. Still, any time personal sexuality makes itself visible in relationships like those between coworkers or between students and teachers things get very muddy very quickly

I ask the question because of this story. I read it about it first on the dankprofessor's blog. (The dankprofessor is Barry Dank, and he writes frequently about the politics of sex on college campuses.)

Briefly the story is this:

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Leather Leadership Conference 2008

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Submitted by Lisavnyc on 17 March 2008 - 5:23am.

Location(s)

San Francisco, CA
United States
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Leather Leadership Conference, a once-a-year national event that helps develop and strengthen leadership skills within the SM/Leather/Fetish community, is being held April 11-13, 2008 in San  Francisco.

 

LLC 12 will  feature nationally recognized presenters including titleholders,artists, activists, authors and some really twisted, kinky people - all with fire and  passion. The opening speaker will be Guy Baldwin, noted author and leather activist. The Saturday  speaker will be Michael Thorn, Editor-in-Chief of Instigator  Magazine. Closing speaker on Sunday will be Patrick Califia, noted author and outspoken advocate for BDSM.

 

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Dark Odyssey-Winter Fire

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  • community
  • Dark Odyssey
  • polyamory
  • sexual exploration
Submitted by Goldslut on 13 February 2008 - 8:58pm.

Location(s)

Washington, DC
United States
See map: Google MapsA journey of sexual adventure, where open minded people gather to explore Tantra, Polyamory, Intimate Communications, BDSM, Alternative Lifestyles and more. With nationally known presenters, hands on workshops, intriguing lectures and exciting social events, experience a vacation you are sure to not forget. For information visit http://darkodyssey.com/

Fetish Alive: Explore your fantasy...

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  • BDSM
  • Desert Dominion
  • fetish
  • Tucson
Submitted by Elizabeth on 29 October 2007 - 5:10am.

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Hotel Congress, Tucson, AZ
Tucson, AZ
United States
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Fetish Alive will be held on March 8, 2008, at the Hotel Congress in

downtown Tucson. This year's theme is Explore your fantasy. The ball will

provide the adult alternative lifestyle community a welcome and safe venue

for self-expression and exploration while celebrating freedom, fun,

fantasy, and fetish. The event is sponsored by Desert Dominion, an

educational and social group in Tucson Arizona whose focus is providing

information and education for people interested in the BDSM lifestyle.

 

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People of Color Forum: Moderated by Lady Sabrina and Sir Guy

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  • events
  • New York
  • politics
Submitted by Chris on 24 October 2007 - 11:35am.

Location(s)

The Eulenspiegel Society
260 West 36th Street 3rd Floor
New York, NY
United States
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When you see images of BDSM and Fetish, do you ask yourself, "Where are the 'people of color'?" When you go to your favorite dungeon, do you see a cross section of the community, or is it mostly a "whites only" affair? Is it because Blacks, Latinos, Asians and other 'people of color' aren't kinky, or is there some other reason? Join Lady Sabrina and Sir Guy as they moderate a forum on 'people of color' in the Scene.

$4 Members; $8 Non-Members

NCSF Survey still needs respondents!

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  • NCSF
  • research
Submitted by Elizabeth on 11 October 2007 - 3:18am.

Lolita writes in a comment here that the NCSF survey needs lots more respondents, especially practitioners from racial and ethnic minority groups, and also from women.  

There's a link to the survey on the top of the righthand side bar, but you can also just click this URL: 

http://www.surveybdsm.com. 

The survey is anonymous and it doesn't take very long to fill it out. And hey, today is National Coming Out day, so why not speak up, even if anonymously, about your kinks?
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