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When is it okay for faculty and students to be sexual in the same place?

If you ask it that way it's kind of an odd question, isn't it? I mean we're basically sexual all the time. We just aren't always acting on our sexual desires. But we are not without our sexuality. Still, any time personal sexuality makes itself visible in relationships like those between coworkers or between students and teachers things get very muddy very quickly

I ask the question because of this story. I read it about it first on the dankprofessor's blog. (The dankprofessor is Barry Dank, and he writes frequently about the politics of sex on college campuses.)

Briefly the story is this:

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Leather Leadership Conference 2008

Leather Leadership Conference, a once-a-year national event that helps develop and strengthen leadership skills within the SM/Leather/Fetish community, is being held April 11-13, 2008 in San  Francisco.


LLC 12 will  feature nationally recognized presenters including titleholders,artists, activists, authors and some really twisted, kinky people - all with fire and  passion. The opening speaker will be Guy Baldwin, noted author and leather activist. The Saturday  speaker will be Michael Thorn, Editor-in-Chief of Instigator  Magazine. Closing speaker on Sunday will be Patrick Califia, noted author and outspoken advocate for BDSM.


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Dark Odyssey-Winter Fire

A journey of sexual adventure, where open minded people gather to explore Tantra, Polyamory, Intimate Communications, BDSM, Alternative Lifestyles and more. With nationally known presenters, hands on workshops, intriguing lectures and exciting social events, experience a vacation you are sure to not forget. For information visit
Elizabeth's picture

Fetish Alive: Explore your fantasy...

Fetish Alive will be held on March 8, 2008, at the Hotel Congress in

downtown Tucson. This year's theme is Explore your fantasy. The ball will

provide the adult alternative lifestyle community a welcome and safe venue

for self-expression and exploration while celebrating freedom, fun,

fantasy, and fetish. The event is sponsored by Desert Dominion, an

educational and social group in Tucson Arizona whose focus is providing

information and education for people interested in the BDSM lifestyle.


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People of Color Forum: Moderated by Lady Sabrina and Sir Guy

When you see images of BDSM and Fetish, do you ask yourself, "Where are the 'people of color'?" When you go to your favorite dungeon, do you see a cross section of the community, or is it mostly a "whites only" affair? Is it because Blacks, Latinos, Asians and other 'people of color' aren't kinky, or is there some other reason? Join Lady Sabrina and Sir Guy as they moderate a forum on 'people of color' in the Scene.

$4 Members; $8 Non-Members

Elizabeth's picture

NCSF Survey still needs respondents!

Lolita writes in a comment here that the NCSF survey needs lots more respondents, especially practitioners from racial and ethnic minority groups, and also from women.  

There's a link to the survey on the top of the righthand side bar, but you can also just click this URL: 

The survey is anonymous and it doesn't take very long to fill it out. And hey, today is National Coming Out day, so why not speak up, even if anonymously, about your kinks?
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Submit to CineKink !!


 "The really alternative film festival"

February 26 - March 2, 2008

Presented by CineKink, an organization dedicated to the recognition and encouragement of sex-positive and kink-friendly depictions in film and television, CineKink NYC is seeking films and videos, of any length and genre, that explore and celebrate the wide diversity of sexuality. We're looking to blur some boundaries and will be considering offerings drawn from both Hollywood and beyond, explicit or not, with works ranging from documentary to drama, camp comedy to hot porn - and everything in between.

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CineKink presents "Liberty in Restraint"

 CINEKINK @ PIONEER: Liberty in Restraint

The Pioneer Theater and CineKink team up to present another evening of kinky movies, pizza and beer.



As an aspiring photographer, the clandestine world of BDSM, fetish fashion and alternative sex was a powerful attraction for Noel Graydon, whose recent death saddened the fetish community. This riveting documentary introduces the mentors, muses and masochists who inspired Noel's artistic endeavors over the years, giving a glimpse into a world of S/M enthusiasts who approach their play "like an advanced driving course in sex," one where the initiated take carnal license to extreme limits.  (Directed by Michael Ney, 2005, Australia, 90 minutes.)


Free pizza and beer reception follows for all ticket holders.

 More info and tickets are at


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