http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/taxonomy/term/441 The taxonomy view with a depth of 0. en http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/node/184 There&#39;s got to be a lot of varied opinion on this and I&#39;d like to hear it.  I was at a party a few weekends ago that I fully expected to enjoy - frankly it seemed right out of a fantasy - enormous house, five rooms in an upstairs area designated as play areas, a great room suitable for dancing, a private yard and large deck with a clothing optional pool, a lot of people I knew or recognized, two friends on hand willing to play, good food, etc.  But I was extemely uncomfortable.  Surveying my friends all I got was &quot;the vibe&quot; was wrong.  Someone blamed the feng shui.  I thought the whole place was much too brightly lit and also seemed bachelor-pad grungy.  We didn&#39;t stay long.  What makes a play party work for you?<br /> <p><a href="http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/node/184">read more</a></p> http://sexinthepublicsquare.org/node/184#comments Exibitionism, voyeurism, play parties architecture BDSM exhibitionism play party voyeurism Tue, 10 Jul 2007 08:49:27 -0700 RC 184 at http://sexinthepublicsquare.org